Wednesday, October 11, 2017

Spiritual Actions through Work

Interestingly when I woke up this morning and when I got to work was two entirely different feelings. When I woke up, it was one of those rare days we've all had when you are struggling to get yourself together. I have hundreds of shabads recorded, but when I sat down in my car this morning, the shabad that played was “Gur Mere Sang Sada Hai Naale.” (My Guru is always with me, near at hand)
Har Ka Naam Riday Nit Dhaye
Sange Saathi Sagal Taraaee
Gur Mere Sang Sada Hai Naale
Simar Simar Tis Sada Smaale (Rahao).
Tera Kiya Meeta Lage
Har Naam Padarath Nanak Mange

“Mediate Continually on the Name of the Lord within your heart
Thus you shall save all your companions and associates.
My Guru is always with me, near at hand
Meditating, mediating in remembrance on Him, I cherish Him forever. (Pause).
Your actions seem so sweet to me.
Nanak begs for the treasure of the Naam, the Name of the Lord.”

Many of you may remember that these lines were read by Guru Arjan Dev Ji at the time of his shaheedi (martyrdom). I immediately found great comfort that whatever lied ahead for me in this day, I would be able to face it with the Guru by my side. Thus, by the time I arrived to work, I transformed from physically prepared to mentally prepared for a day of sewa (service). 

Maskeen Ji talks about the Bhagats in his book “Laavan.” He writes “Ravidas may be mending shoes, this is his profession. But this profession is also his religion. He is mending the shoes with a feeling of welfare service for others, with a ‘Bhav.’ In his heart , he says ‘O’ God You have made this as my profession to earn my living and all these people whose shoes I mend are Your forms only. I am doing their service, so thanks to You my Lord. Such a person’s profession becomes his religion, his way of thanks and gratitude to God" (p.57 of the book Laavan). Maskeen Ji describes that an action with a desire attached is a business, and one with devotion and dedication is a dharam (spiritual action, religion). He gives the example if someone visits the Gurdwara for 40 days to get their desires fulfilled- this is a business transaction, not a dharam, but if your heart and devotion is in it, then it is a dharam: “If the mind has only materialistic gain as its prime requirement then doing kirtan is also merely a profession, a business and if a heart is full of gratitude, of thankfulness, of dedication, of devotion, of love for God, of welfare service for others then even weighing of objects, mending shoes, weaving cloth, every action is a ‘Dharam'” (p 58).

I think this brings us to a point about job satisfaction as well. I was talking to someone who saves lives for a living yet has no love for it, still no satisfaction. I was shocked because I thought that saving lives would be satisfying for anyone. It really made me reflect on what satisfied means. It’s not about the job itself, but the mindset of the individual. I think that Maskeen Ji is reminding us of that here- that it's about dedication in your heart that determines if it's work or spiritual action. Of course working fulfills our body’s need for food by making money, but there's one path where one fuels ego and greed, and there's another that trusts that God will provide, and this is my spiritual fulfillment. I feel that I definitely have a lot of job satisfaction, and my heart lies in the families I see and the people I get to sit with to hear their stories. I think that there is a far distance to travel though from not just doing it with love, but doing it for God like Bhagats Ravidas, Naamdev, and Kabir. Naamdev who dyed clothing said “I dye myself in the color of the Lord, and sew what has to be sewn” (Ang 485 Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji). To get to that level, the pride and the ego has to be taken out. Each action is not for ego, each action is service to God as sewa. Unfortunately for a lot of people job is a place of great ego, of attachment, of pride, of making a name for yourself and in that way work becomes everything. Work becomes identity, work becomes a business, and not a dharam or any part of a spiritual journey. As we walk that spiritual path through the laavan these are the types of things to think about- where we sit on this spectrum, who our inspiration is, and how we work to get there. As we mentally work with all the tools we have- simran, sangat, Gurbani, katha, kirtan, etc. then we certainly will reach that state over time, by Waheguru’s grace as the 4th laav tells us.

Listen to this shabad by Bhai Niranjan Singh https://www.sikhnet.com/gurbani/audio-play/track,7998


Sunday, October 8, 2017

Hum Avgun Bhare Ek Gun Nahi

I saw a part of Giani Sant Singh Ji Maskeen’s katha written out on facebook today and it remind me of a section of the book “Laavan”. In the post (forgive me for any translation errors- it was written in Punjabi), it said that a spiritually awakened mind has compassion over someone’s demerits (avgun). He gives the example of the body. When someone falls due to body’s weakness, we have so much compassion for them. We run to help. When someone falls due to their mind, we hate them. In the English translated book laavan, he writes “On seeing a Gyani, a spiritually evolved soul, who is ahead in this inner journey of the ‘self’, he gets feelings of reverence and devotion. On the other hand on seeing an ignorant being, he gets feelings of compassion that this person has no understanding of the truth and so has not even started the true inner journey. These are the symptoms of a spiritual being, that he has devotion towards the highly evolved saintly souls and compassion towards the ignorant.” Giani Ji also gives the example of Sheikh Sajjan, the man who was murdering all the people who were coming to seek shelter in his home, and how Guru Nanak had compassion and showed him how to change his mind. Sajjan changed and stopped murdering people, becoming a follower of the Guru.

Guru Arjan Dev Ji writes, on Ang 1357
“Through the Mantra of the Name of the Lord, Raam, Raam, one meditates on the All-pervading Lord. Those who have the wisdom to look alike upon pleasure and pain, live the immaculate lifestyle, free of vengeance. They are kind to all beings; they have overpowered the five thieves. They take the Kirtan of the Lord’s praise as their food; they remain untouched by Maya, like the lotus in the water. They share the Teachings with friend and enemy alike; they love the devotional worship of God. They do not listen to slander; renouncing self-conceit, they become the dust of all. Whoever has these six qualities, O Nanak, is called a Holy Friend.”

I think it is really important for each of us to reflect on these teachings because it gives us a sense of whether we are growing in the right direction. It gives us a goal and inspiration. I am continually reminded of how much work needs to be done on the mind. When I find myself bothered by external situations, I am reminded that I am the one who needs to find peace in my mind. Bhatt Kirat writes on Ang 1406, Hum Avgun Bhare Ek Gun Nahi. “I am overflowing with sins and demerits, I have no merits or virtues at all.” We are quick to look at other people in a bad light. We apply different standards to ourselves and even our loved ones. It’s important to remember Gurbani, and get rid of ego through all of our methods: naam japna, sewa, simran, sangat, kirtan, etc. Giani Sant Singh Ji Maskeen’s wise words explain to us how we must have compassion and understanding for other people’s mind journeys.

Bibi Bhani

I thought I’d take this chance to write about Bibi Bhani Ji since we are celebrating Guru Ramdas Ji’s Gurpurb. Bibi Bhani Ji was daughter of Guru Amardas Ji, wife of Guru Ramdas Ji, mother of Guru Arjan Dev Ji, Grandmother of Guru Hargobind, Great Granmother of Guru Teg Bahadur, and Great Great Grandmother of Guru Gobind Singh! This is truly amazing. She thus was a very important woman in our history.
Bibi Bhani was born in 1535 to Guru Amar Das Ji and Mata Mansa Devi. She got married to Bhai Jetha Ji (Guru Ramdas) in 1554 as discussed in my previous post. The couple did sewa together, and she devotedly served her father even after having three children. Sikhiwiki writes “There is special status of Bibi Bhani in the life of Guru Amardas by the way she cared for her father proving that there was no difference between a son and a daughter. Both can equally serve their parents.” Bibi Bhani lived her life with humility and always thought about others. When a Sikh offered Bibi Bani money for new dresses and jewellery for her wedding, she read this line of Gurbani “False is gold, false is silver, false are those who wear them,” and requested that this money should be spent on the langar to serve others. After the torture and martyrdom of Guru Arjan Dev Ji, she stayed strong and supported Guru Ji’s wife and son, Hargobind. She was doing sewa of individuals with leprosy when she left this world in 1598.  
Guru Arjan Dev Ji has written about his mother’s blessings in Ang 496 of the Guru Granth Sahib Ji
“Remembering Him, all sins are erased, and ones generations are saved.
So meditate continually on the Lord, Har, Har; He has no end or limitation.
O son, this is your mother's hope and prayer, that you may never forget the Lord,
Har, Har, even for an instant. May you ever vibrate upon the Lord of the Universe (Pause).
May the True Guru be kind to you, and may you love the Society of the Saints.
May the preservation of your honor by the Transcendent Lord be your clothes, and may the singing of His Praises be your food.
So drink in forever the Ambrosial Nectar; may you live long, and may the meditative remembrance of the Lord give you infinite delight.
May joy and pleasure be yours; may your hopes be fulfilled, and may you never be troubled by worries.
Let this mind of yours be the bumble bee, and let the Lord's feet be the lotus flower. Says servant Nanak, attach your mind to them, and blossom forth like the song-bird, upon finding the rain-drop.”

References:
“Noble and Brave Sikh Women” by Principal Sawan Singh
Pics:
http://dedicatedkaurs.blogspot.ca/2006/06/400th-martyrdom-anniversary-16th-june_18.html


Wednesday, October 4, 2017

Happy Gurpurb!

In addition to the Jor Mela Baba Buddha Ji, this weekend is also the Gurpurb of Guru Ram Das Ji. Guru Ram Das Ji was born Oct 9, 1534 to parents Haridas and Mata Anup Devi. His original name was Bhai Jetha (meaning first born). Since his father died when he was 7 and he was taken to his maternal grandmother in Basarke. When he was older, he came across some Sikhs who were headed to Goindwal and Bhai Jetha Ji joined them to meet Guru Amar Das Ji.  He stayed there and became a devoted Sikh of the Guru. Guru Amar Das Ji married his daughter, Bibi Bhai, to Bhai Jetha Ji in 1554. They went on to have 3 children Prithi Chand, Mahan Dev, and (Guru) Arjan Dev Ji. Together they did sewa of construction of Baoli Sahib and served the sangat, preparing langar, washing dishes, getting water, and serving the Guru Ji personally.

Bhai Jetha Ji even went to the emperor Akbar’s court to defend Sikh teachings. Some Hindus had lodged a complaint against Guru Amar Das that he abolished the caste system and didn’t practice Hindu rituals like idol worship, and that sangat ate together. Because of his old age, Guru Ji sent Bhai Jetha Ji in his place with the instructions to be honest and fear no one. Bhai Jetha Ji said to Akbar: "Birth and caste are of no avail before God. It is ones deeds which make or unmake a man. To exploit ignorant people with superstitions and to call it religion is a sacrilege against God and man. To worship the infinite, formless and absolute God in the form of a totem, an image or an insignificant time-bound object of nature; to lead people to believe that they can wash away their sins, not through compassion and self-surrender, but through ablutions; to insist upon special diets-what to eat and what not to eat; to say that a certain language and dress allows access to God and to condemn masses of human beings, men, women and children, to the status of sub-humans, who are not even allowed to learn to read the scriptures that they are told rule their lives; never allowed to enter a house of worship; who are allowed to do only the lowest degrading work, is to tear man apart from man. This is not religion nor is it religion to deny the world by becoming an ascetic, for it is in the world alone that man can find his spiritual possibilities." (from http://www.sikhiwiki.org/index.php/Guru_Ram_Das ). At this the Emperor dismissed the complaint.

When it was time to pass on the Guruship, Guru Amar Das Ji asked his son-in-laws Rama and Jetha to build platforms. He said they were both wrong and asked them to rebuild. Again, Guru Ji asked to tear them down and rebuild them a second time and a third. Rama refused to rebuild, but Jetha kept rebuilding 7 times, finally the Guru said that just as 7 platforms had been built, so would 7 generations of Bhai Jetha sit on Guru’s throne. Guru Amar Das Ji then passed on the Guruship to Bhai Jetha and named him Guru Ram Das (servant of God). He started building Ramdaspur (now Amritsar). 

Guru Ram Das Ji wrote 688 hymns in the Guru Granth Sahib Ji. Guru Amar Das Ji wrote these famous lines “They are not said to be husband and wife who merely sit together. Rather they alone are called husband and wife, who have one soul in two bodies." Guru Ram Das Ji then went on to write the laavan we read at the Anand Karaj.

Guru Ram Das’ cousin Shari Mal’s son was going to be married, and Guru Ji was busy in sewa but promised to send one of his sons. Prithi Chand and Mahan Dev refused. Arjan Dev accepted, and went to Lahore. He stayed to educate and serve the Sikhs there, but two years had passed and he wrote two poems to his father, which jealous Prithi Chand took before Guru Ji received them. The last poem was the shabad “Mera Man Loche Gur Darshan Taee” 
My mind longs for the Blessed Vision of the Guru's Darshan.
It cries out like the thirsty song-bird.
My thirst is not quenched, and I can find no peace, without the
Blessed Vision of the Beloved Saint. ||1||
I am a sacrifice, my soul is a sacrifice,
To the Blessed Vision of the Beloved Saint Guru.
(SGGS, Raag Maajh, Pannaa 96)

This one was delivered to the Guru personally, and since it said it was the third, he became aware that two others had been written. Prithi Chand initially denied it, but them confessed and the other two poems were also given. He was moved by the letters. Guru Ram Das Ji passed on the Guruship to Guru Arjan Dev and merged with Waheguru on Sep 16, 1581.

Guru Ram Das Ji and Bibi Bhani Ji have a truly inspiring marriage. They did sewa together and can teach us to do the same. They prayed together and raised their children while singing the praises of Waheguru. They teach us about putting Guru first in marriage, and working as a family towards the goal of being one with Waheguru. If there’s any sort of conflict we can be sure ego is at the center of it. When we look at Guru Ram Das Ji’s life we can learn a lot about letting go of ego in order to live a life of harmony and love. I read in Maskeen Ji’s laavan book that the more we get of “I” and “me” the more God will emerge within us, and will be more apparent. 

Happy Gurpurb! 

References:
https://www.pinterest.ca/pin/383650461986512512/ (picture)

Tuesday, October 3, 2017

Updated painting


I originally painted this in a style that didn't show the faces because it was a style of painting that I had seen. I thought it would be interesting to just keep the faces anonymous plus I was a little nervous to draw on faces. After some time I changed my mind and painted faces as well. What's interesting as with the rest of this painting, is that the paintbrush sort of had a mind of it's own so some people's facial expressions are not what I had originally planned! haha

Monday, October 2, 2017

Baba Buddha Ji

This weekend we are celebrating Jor-Mela Baba Budha Ji and Gurpurb of Guru Ram Das Ji. 

Baba Budha Ji was born Oct 6, 1506 to Hindu parents Bhai Suggha and Mai Gauran in Katthu Nangal. Originally his name was Bura. When Bura was young, Guru Nanak Dev Ji was traveling with Mardana to do kirtan. Bura offered him a bowl of milk and asked Guru Nanak to release him from the “circuit of birth and death.” Guru Nanak Dev Ji remarked that he spoke wisely for his young age. Bura explained that just as Mughals had destroyed their crops, ripe and unripe, death does not consider age and years either. Guru Nanak Dev Ji then named him Buddha because of his maturity and wisdom. He went onto become a disciple of the Guru. He was a devoted Sikh and did a lot of seva.

Guru Nanak Dev Ji asked him to apply the tilak to the head of Bhai Lehna Ji when it was time for him to become our second Guru. Baba Buddha Ji went on to anoint Guru Amardas, Guru Ramdas, Guru Arjan Dev and Guru Hargobind Sahib Ji.

When Guru Angad Dev JI was bestowed Guruship he left for Khandur to meditate in Mata Viraee’s house, but after 6 months the Sikhs began to worry. He told Mata Ji to hide the entrance to the room. Baba Buddha Ji arrived and got everyone to sing kirtan, and the Guru revealed himself. Similarly, when Guru Amardas left for Basarke, he put up a sign saying “Whoever opens this door, he is not my Sikh and I am not his Guru.” Baba Buddha Ji broke a hole through the back of the hut and Guru Amardas Ji stated “You are a strong boat that will help the sangat (congregation) cross the ocean of life. You are a pillar of Sikhi.

There is a popular painting of Baba Buddha Ji and Mata Ganga Ji. Mata Ganga Ji was wife of Guru Arjan Dev Ji. She went to seek blessings of Baba Buddha Ji because she wanted to have a child, and thus she presented him with many delicacies. Baba Buddha Ji refused to meet her. Guru Arjan Dev Ji told her to make a meal herself and return. She brought missi roti, onion and lassi, and Baba Buddha Ji accepted. He crushed an onion and said "A son will be born to you who will crush the enemies of Guru Nanak’s house, just as I have crushed this onion with my hand." That son was Guru Hargobind Sahib Ji.

Baba Buddha Ji is the embodiment of our teachings, and did the sewa of construction Baoli at Goinval, construction of Akal Takht, and supervising excavation of the pool at Amritsar. Baba Buddha Ji learned and taught Gurmukhi. He went on to become the first Giani of Harmandir Sahib. He merged with the supreme light in September 1631 with Guru Hargobind Sahib Ji by his side. Let us all learn from Baba Buddha Ji's life and be inspired to do sewa. 

All information from:

Picture from:
http://gurbani.co/gurdwaras/gurudwara-baba-budha-sahib-amritsar.php